9. Practical Considerations
From the purpose of matrimony follow its basal
principles. The individual purpose demands not
only free choice but also a reverence for the families of
husband and wife. The conditions for the
realization
of the ideal marriage are mutual inclination,
relative equality of education and
rank, and possession of the highest
aims in life. An ideal marriage between
Christians and non-Christians is
therefore impossible, as also between
Protestants and non-Protestants. Since marriage
has
to depend upon public recognition and in its effects
touches public life, it is a duty to submit to public
regulations regarding it, while the Christian should
also seek the sanction of the Church. In theory,
marriage should be indissoluble, but owing to the
guilt of sin this ideal can not always be realized.
The Christian must always feel that separation from
a living husband or wife contradicts duty. Where
divergencies of temperament or moral defects in
either party hamper the realization of the ideal,
one must, according to
Matt. v. 29-30,
save his soul,
even if in that way the individual life is shortened.
In case of unfaithfulness, Christian love must strive
to condone even such guilt. The
statement that
adultery is de facto annulment of marriage, rests
upon a one-sided emphasis upon the physical phase
of marriage. Adultery may be committed also
without the sin of the flesh
(I Cor. vii. 2-15).
But
it may be right or even a duty for the married to
discontinue living together if the moral power is not
sufficient to bear the burden thus imposed by guilt
or if pardoning love sees no prospect of change in
the guilty party; and, in case of second marriage
on the part of the guilty person, one's own moral
danger may justify a new marriage. These ideal
ethical norms can not immediately be transformed
into legal norms for State and Church, for both
must take into consideration the weakness of their
members and must adjust their legal measures to
the greatest possible ethical effects. When the
death of husband or wife has intervened, a second
marriage should not be contested, since it does not
involve unfaithfulness to the deceased. The abiding
relationship is by death transferred to the spiritual
world.
(J. Gottschick†.)
10. Misalliance and Morganatic Marriage
classes were considered misalliances,
and the wife of lower birth was not
raised to her husband's rank, while the
children belonged to their mother's
class. This condition of affairs was
partly
obviated by the introduction of the Roman
law, except for the nobility, which, in virtue of its
autonomy, was able by family laws and agreements
to prevent the principles of Roman jurisprudence
from interfering with their family rights, and thus
to conserve the traditional theories of Teutonic law.
In the ancient German kingdom, as to-day, the nobility
were able to restrict the concept of the misalliance,
so that the marriage of members of noble
families with those not belonging to the high nobility
was to be considered in conformity with class
requirements. The so-called morganatic, Salic,
or left-hand, marriage (
matrimonium ad morganaticam,
ad legem Salicam) is normally a marriage between
persons of unequal rank, but differs from the
misalliance in the strict sense of the term in that
its effects are based on a special contract instead
of on law and custom. The term "morganatic"
is apparently derived from the morning-gift (Germ.
Morgengabe) which was usually given at such marriages.
The expression
matrimonium ad legem Salicam,
which is yet employed, is
unexplained. The
phrase "morganatic marriage" is now the one in
common use, and such marriages still take place
only in ruling families and those of the high nobility.
(E. Sehling.)